Sweet Safari Boy

A Smart Tabby's Thoughts on Life and Love…


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A Safari Boy and a Life Well Lived…

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Fourteen years is a long time. Sometimes marriages or relationships cannot make it that long, but this little Sweet Safari Boy and I fell in love as soon as my neighbor Alaina handed him to me. Today with much sadness my little love went peacefully over the Rainbow Bridge to join Bailey, Tarzan, Cheetah, and Freedom in Hyfryd, where all my babies live in a magical place with fresh food, grass, air, clean water and peace. There is no pain there, no cancer – only goodness, just like the kind they bestow on the parts of the world we inhabit.

Safari was never an affectionate cat to my husband, only to me. He would let him feed him off the kitchen table because he knew he was the soft touch however. Safari at one time weighed 18 pounds. He was always a big cat and he loved to eat. When he would not eat anymore and his respiration was failing, we knew it was time. I, however, never want it to be time even though I had accepted the inevitable.

For 11 years he was an only cat and a spoiled one at that. He has always lived in two places and at one time three places at a time! He loved the sunshine here in Florida more than anything, which is good because he never dealt with winter. Bailey,a senior Border Collie we adopted when he was 11,  was his first companion because he always liked dogs more than cats. I never had one cat at a time but I made the sacrifice for him because he was that special. Bailey only lived for 3-1/2 years, but six months later, Joy would enter our lives because Bailey gave me the sign.

After burying Safari in a special spot in the yard, the house seems quiet. Joy watched everything I did and seemed to understand what was going on since his illness had been taking a turn for the worse. Border Collies are very smart you see. She now has us as her only playmates. I told Safari this morning to send me a sign and I know he will. Soon we will head North for the summer and the search will begin and Joy will part of that journey as we have to make sure the two get along famously. I think our young Joy will love a frisky little kitten to romp around with when the time comes. Another part of our life will begin in as much the new kitty’s life will begin as well.

Us pet parents have it the hardest I think. We do this over and over despite how hard it is because we want to give a furry child a great life of love and happiness. I cried so hard today because I will miss his little characteristics and adorable idiosyncrasies but most of all his cuddliness and deep purr. I know Bailey was probably very excited to be reunited with Safari after four years and I am sure she will be telling me everything on her blog, http://www.baileysjournal.com.

I will see Safari again someday and it will be just like yesterday in the place where reunions have no span of time and no know no boundaries.

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Safari and Joy                                                                Safari & Bailey

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Not Giving Up on Faith

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Safari is not ready to give up, nor does he appreciate all the squirts of natural meds going into his throat several time a day. Yet, I think he is getting used to it. Except for the Tumeric tincture he does not give me too much trouble as I tell him that he needs the stuff and please don’t spit it back at me. He listens 99 percent of the time and I don’t think I could ask for more than that. Like many cancer patients with 2 legs and not four paws, Safari does not look sick at all. He eats a lot, thankfully and Safari has always looked young. He has never really aged as some of my former fur kids. He is adorable, gorgeous, cuddly and lovable and I already think about how much I am going to miss him. I always want people and animals to live forever. I get the circle of life idea but I am not sure I am a huge fan. If I am reunited with them all at the end of the journey, then I will be okay with it. I guess that is where Faith comes in.

Two people in my life teach me about Faith, One is my dear friend Tania who is perhaps the most faithful and he led me to a place where I trust those thoughts more than ever. I do not know if she knows that she has given me that gift, but she has. As a person who is not religious but more on the spiritual side, that does not come easy. I think if you are religious by nature, the faith is innately there. The other is Dr. Victoria Summers, whom I write about in my various blogs for those who follow me on here or on social media. She is the rescue grandma of our dog, Joy. As a person with terminal cancer who was told 3 years ago she would be dead within weeks, I am more than happy to report that she is still here. She is a Dr. of naturopathic medicine and that, combined with her amazing faith and need to help dogs, strongly rises above any plans that some allopathic doctor had for her. She has work to do and her faith in dogs and matching the right dogs with the right adopters keeps her on a path of grace. Aside from that, she is another person I cannot imagine not being on the planet for me to simply dial up and talk to. Since meeting we became fast friends and I love her so much.

Safari doesn’t know he has a job but I have told him lately that he does. He is nearly 14 and it is hard for me to imagine not calling out his name to see where he is or what he doing all the time. He is my scrap booking partner, who loves to try to eat my stickers, bend papers and be part of the process. It is his hair that I get out of my keyboard all the time because he loves to be present  and ON TOP of my writing as I work – literally. When you think how you share your life with someone for 14 years that is a long time. Some relationships don’t last that long! Ours has been a blissful marriage  and I can say that unequivocally.

Here he comes out of the porch–probably wants some food. Time to go and tend to my Sweet Safari Boy. Or maybe he wants to add some more hair into the keyboard. It’s okay. He can do anything he wants; he always could. He has had that effect on me from the first day my neighbor Alaina put him into my arms. She knew I would love and take care of him. To her I am ever grateful. xoxox

 


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For Safari The Forecast is Sunny!

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Next week Safari and the rest of us are off to warmer climes in Florida for the winter! Safari is the happiest there. I always said he is like his Papa in that sense! And we can leave knowing he does not have hypothyroidism! Yes he is a 13 year old senior boy but his blood work and his thyroid profile was normal after checking it twice! I am so happy for him. He is the sweetest guy around and as my sister always says, she just wants to hug him! He is very huggable even though he sometimes pretends he is not interested! So there is much to celebrate and he will be happy to get back to his porch and fenced in backyard where he can eat and then puke grass with supervision from  our dog Joy and I!

When you have a senior pet you are always worried about what is coming down the health pike. At least I do but I am going to try to just live more day to day and enjoy his wonderful presence and love and squeeze and kiss him more times then he wants, cause he is my little guy. Funny I have always called him my little guy but he has never been little! He is adorable and I feel lucky to share my life with such a sweet man. He and the other one I call my husband.


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Finally It’s My Turn…

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I am a spoiled cat as you can see from the position on my mom’s lap, as we recently drove through West Virginia on the way back to our summer home in Pennsylvania. We have been doing this for many years and I just turned 12. Both my vets say I look so young for my age and I attribute it to al the good food I get to eat (and I DO love my food!) and all the love I have bestowed upon me on a daily basis.

I was born at our neighbor’s home. Alaina Z. asked my mom if she wanted a kitten and I was really hoping to get away from the many dogs and cats that were living there on their farmette at the time. My dad was in Chicago, so mom just decided to take me in without asking him – something she is kind of known for. At the time, Tarzan a dark tabby that my mom was VERY in love with was nearing the end of his life. He was almost 19! I was sort of a goofball and took right over but I really liked him. She told me that no other cat she has ever had been as feisty as Tarzie.  She really, really loved him but the very first night I was in the house I laid right on her chest when she went to sleep, as if to say, yep, I like it here and I am here to stay! Well, I cannot help it because I was a kitten and my name is Safari and I am a jungle cat – mom named all her cats after things having to do to with the jungle.

I was happy to be an only cat for many years after Tarzan crossed over the Rainbow Bridge, but when we lived in Chicago (yes, we lived in three places at once for 7 years!) we had a little yard and Suri, a pretty Golden Retriever, lived on one side and Charlie, a Cocker Spaniel, lived on the other side. I would get to go out on my leash and I liked to sit by the fence near Charlie. He really liked me so I started to become fond of dogs and hoped that one day I might get to keep the company of one someday.

That day came on June 20, 2008 when Mom went to Angels for Animals to see a Border Collie/Collie mix named Bailey. Dad did not go with because he had some workers doing a project on the house so she went on a Friday night and later came home with a 7 year-old senior dog that she quickly fell in love with. I loved her too, I did not like to show TOO much affection for her, but she was always gentle and sweet with me. Border Collies love cats because they think they can just herd us around like sheep! Well, not this cat!

Bailey had a lot of health problems it turned out and crossed over the Rainbow Bridge just after a little more than 3 years. Mom has no regrets. She loved Bailey so much and took the best care of her I was with her when she died and I was very sad and started to sleep in her spot. She was a very special person. She had her own blog of course www.baileysjournal.com.  Mom loved her so much that she wrote a book about her and now it’s being published. I was hoping to get another dog to live with someday, but mom and dad needed some time, so for six months we were “dogless.”

Before Bailey died, mom asked her to please send her a sign in regards to another dog. It would take a while, but sure enough, Bailey did. On May 11, 2012, Joy came to live with us. Bailey must have told mom to go to www.petfinder.com and look up Border Collies. She did and found Indian Summers Border Collie Rescue – www.indiansummers.org and that is how she found sweet Joy. Another Border Collie! YAY! She is a young one though and we like to play together. She loves to chase me around. I pretend not to like it, but it helps me to exercise which I really do NOT like to do generally speaking. I am more the relaxing guy myself! Secretly I thank Joy for moving me around a little each day! I like to play with my toys but not for as long as I used to – it gets too boring, but Joy never does!

Since writing Bailey’s Journal and then Joy’s Tail www.joystail.com she had a suggestion from Laurel, a fellow animal lover (and reader of her blogs) that I should perhaps have a go at this writing thing and I could NOT agree more. It’s about time after all I have been around the longest and have seniority!

I just had my 12th birthday like I said and I am looking forward to giving my perspective on here because we all know a cat is way smarter than a dog! Well, I do live with the smartest of all breeds, so we MIGHT be tied in the brains department. Best of all we are all tied up in the love department and today I am thankful for my mom and dad and sister on this day we honor the men  in our lives. I think we should honor our parents everyday!  I will be reporting back here very soon. Nice to meet you all…

With Love,

Safari

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